What’s Behind The Smiles

by Joseph M. Gravish

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Betty’s worked hard for the ABC Hotel Management Company for more than 25 years. She’s long past the usual retirement age and she finally has to leave. Work and age have caught up with her. Her department gave her a nice farewell luncheon, flowers, and lots of hugs. During over two decades of service Betty has never been offered one paid day-off of any type and no benefits whatsoever. Nada. Zilch. That’s gratitude for you.

There’s a growing uneasiness within our workforce, particularly among non-union hotel companies, especially considering the many labor union negotiated successes this past year. But, as usual at year end, some employers will simply do little more than sprinkle a little holiday cheer around by hosting a company party, giving employees a turkey or a gift card, and maybe even rewarding them with a small monetary bonus. It’s often too little too
late – not unlike putting soothing ointment over a sucking chest wound.

The good-bye gifts are fine, and the year-end parties are enjoyable and appreciated. But look also at all the industry advertising media featuring supposedly happy employees with smiling faces and perfectly aligned, gleaming white teeth. Just maybe our workers might better appreciate a dental plan, or health care benefits, or an above poverty-level wage, or an annual merit pay increase, or better working conditions. Despite impressive recent industry revenues and positive future growth projections, from where I sit the service industry as a whole provides fewer quality of life benefits and an average wage far less than other competing industries. Yet hotel management demands our front-line staff root out every opportunity to create best impressionable memorable moments, day-in and day-out, without exception, regardless of their personal work status.

Meanwhile, national and regional hotel associations continue to work hard and bankroll efforts designed to counter government initiatives mandating higher minimum or living wages even though recent ballot box proposals requiring this to be done so were overwhelmingly successful.

Isn’t the industry tired of this two-sided charade? Isn’t it time to change?
Hotel industry leaders should decide it’s no longer worthwhile to whine and cry aloud about the lack of adequate numbers of workers or the poor quality of job applicants. Hoteliers have the ability to heal themselves. Their time would be better spent adapting to the conditions which would improve the image of the industry and permit it to compete and grow in the future. Maybe paying their human capital assets so little for so many years (knowing that many of them may have qualified for government subsidies for the poor, and pushing their employees’ health care burden onto taxpayers like you and me) has come back to haunt them.

I’m reminded of a quote from the French playwright Moliere “There’s no praise to beat the sort you can put in your pockets.”

Let’s reflect as we prepare and finalize next year’s budget. Will your compensation philosophy acknowledge the changing realities and capitalize on the opportunity available? If your property made little or no profit this past year how much of your labor budget can you really cut without further degrading service? If your property made a decent profit, will any of that profit find its way to your front-line staff next year? Why not? If your property made a significant profit in 2006 why isn’t an above average portion of that profit being returned to those that created it?

My worst fear is that nothing will change – that budgeted monies will go to necessary infrasturcture improvements, some to accommodate ever-increasing amenity creep, and only just enough to meet brand-mandated employee training programs. The direct connection between quality, well-trained, respected, satisfied and loyal employees – and higher profits – will be quickly forgotten. The bean-counter mentality will return. The big picture will be ignored, once again.

Hoteliers need only look into the mirror to find the reason for massive governmental wage intervention. This industry, and others like it, has not enjoyed the most favorable public reputation. How many young adults, perhaps your own children, dream aloud of a career in hospitality? Given a choice would you encourage your son or daughter to aspire to become a hotel general manager? A recent Business Week profile of best places to launch a college graduate’s career failed to list any hotel-industry employer. Surprised? You shouldn’t be. Very few hotel companies have made any “best” lists – ever. If this list had been expanded to 100 employers would any hotel company be on the list? I’m hopeful – but not optimistic. The hotel industry can’t hide behind the cute advertising smiles any longer. The public and most lawmakers have noticed. There’s decay aplenty. It was, sadly, inevitable – but also preventable. For too long, too many hoteliers have ignored their social responsibility. As Madame Marie Curie said “You cannot hope to build a better world without improving the individuals. To that end each of us… share(s) a general responsibility for all humanity, our particular duty being to aid those to whom we think we can be most useful.” To be specific – our smiling employees.

The problem is not that…

The problem is not:

1. When some people have problems and others have solutions.

2. If some people have worries and other can understand that.

3. When some people are busy but others are able to spare some moments for them

4. When some people fall and other are able to hold their hand.

5. If someone is walking alone and others join.

 

The problem starts when:

1. All have problems and none have solution.

2. No one understands.

3. Everybody is busy.

4. There is no one to hold you…but people are ready to laugh…the moment you fall.

5. They discourage you to walk alone…when they de-motivate you.

 

The problem is not that:

1. You fail.

2. People hurts you…backstab you…betrays you and breach your trust.

3. People hate you and gives you pain.

4. Someone rejects you.

5. Some people ignore you.

 

The problem begin:

1. If you don’t start again

2. If you forget to learn your lesson

3. When, in-spite of hate and pain…you don’t stop and move on in your life. When you learn that not everyone will love you and accept you the way you are.

4. If you fail to take that opportunity and start working again

5. If you fail to come out of your ego…and reach them

 

You can read the complete article at http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Problem-is-That&id=311373

 

Conclusion

 

Most of the time we just see the problem…but don’t learn from that. If you look around…there is problem in everything…so what? But, what you have learned from that…is important.

 

Looking forward to your feedbacks and comments

 

Regards

Sanjeev Sharma

Blog: http://sanjeevhimachali.blogspot.com/

E-mail: ss_himachali@yahoo.com; sanjeev.himachali@gmail.com

Four Stress- Hacking Techniques Kills the Anguish

Joseph Plazo, Ph.D

Communal support and relations are an essential part of stress management because they have such a positive effect on minimizing the sequence of depression. As we become stressed, we require other people for contact, communication, and social buttress. It’s much easier to survive stress tribulation when we find someone to share it with or some troupe to draw sympathy from. Unless depression is grave and caused by deep emotional problems, certain minimizing strategies can be used to reverse or lessen depression syndrome.

Below are coping methods that can easily quash stress-related depression:

1. Boost social relations and interactions with friends and family. Even if you have to coerce yourself to do so, launch an effort to broaden your circle of friends. Insist to see them on a regular basis. Stress and depression diminish as interactions increase.

2. Expand communication between yourself and others. This is particularly true of verbal interaction between a husband and wife or between a parent and child. Communication opens doors and nurtures relationship. Stress is much easier to handle when it’s communicated than when it’s left to rankle inside of us. Whenever problems arise that create tense and stressful situations, articulate your feelings in a constructive and positive way. Here are some tips on how to do that: Don’t dwell on negative things. Don’t be self-critical. Make it a “mutual”, win-win dialogue. Read the rest of this entry »

5 Tips to Help Keep Your Day Less Stressful

Cynthia Morse

Let’s face it – our days are busy, full, and often stressful. How can we possibly find order in this craziness on a daily basis? Here are some (hopefully) helpful tips:

1) Have your day planned ahead of time.
Either the day before, or right before the weekend, take five minutes to organize and plan for your next work day. Clean off your desk, and make a list of tasks that need to get done the following day, preferably in the order of priority.

2) Assign time blocks to each task.
I assign each task its own approximate time block. For example, “Write blog post, 30 minutes.” This helps me to keep track of how I’m spending my time, as well as to organize the multiple tasks on my plate each day.

3) Limit the number of times you read and answer e-mail.

The temptation is always there to read each e-mail that arrives when it arrives – especially if you have an alarm set that lets you know each time you get a new one. Try turning off this alarm, and then stick to checking e-mail just three times a day – morning, noon, and late afternoon.

4) Take an occasional break.
This is difficult for me, because I tend to get so wrapped up in what I’m doing that I don’t want to stop. I do, however, know the importance of taking breaks, and am training myself to get better at it. Stretch breaks are my favorite since I sit in front of my computer for most of the day. Even just five minutes a few times each day can help both physically and mentally. Set an alarm on your computer for this one.it’s definitely a good thing!

5) Have something to look forward to when your work is done for the day.
Maybe you really enjoy reading, and are eager to start that great novel. Maybe you want to simply sit down and read the paper, or play with your children or pets. How about cooking a simple but great meal? Having something that helps to transition you from work mode to relaxation mode is the important thing to remember here.

Taking care of ourselves during these extremely busy times is so important. Keep these tips in mind as you go about your busy day. Your body and mind will thank you for it.

Article Source :
http://www.bestmanagementarticles.com
http://time-management.bestmanagementarticles.com

About the Author :
Cynthia Morse CAP is a Virtual Assistant, and the owner of Virtually At Your Service, http://www.virtuallyatyourservice.biz. She offers top-notch administrative support to small business owners and other busy professionals from her home office, allowing them the time to focus on what they love and do best. Sign up at http://virtuallyatyourservice.typepad.com/virtualbizconnection/ to receive weekly tips and resources benefitting small and micro business owners.

9 Daily Habits

by MadhviSai@aol.com (See Bio below)

Although there may be many people who may be ‘born’ leaders, the ability to lead is actually an art and an amazing collection of skills; which can all be learned and sharpened. The following top 9 daily habits will help us grow as a leader personally, professionally and spiritually.

1. Develop a positive attitude
It is very possible to alter your attitude by altering your mind. Saturate yourself daily with motivational literature, positive people, and inspiring music/art. By conditioning your mind to be more positive on a daily basis, you will find that winning will be a daily reward of your life.

2. Increase your Knowledge base
Great leaders are highly competent, because they are dedicated to a high level of learning, growth, and improvement. Devote at least 20 minutes each day to learning something new. Do not settle for knowing ‘how’ to do something. Dig deeper by asking the question ‘why’, ‘when’, ‘what’,’ where’ and then, go get the answers. Search the internet, speak to the experts, or take a
day trip to find the answer to a question that is on your mind or the minds of those who follow you.

3. Accept responsibility
Great leaders never play the role of a victim. They recognise that part of being a great leader is being ultimately responsible for all successes and failures of the team. On a daily basis, analyse your current projects, and ask yourself ‘Have I done all that needs to be done? What more could I have done?’Once you have analysed each project, if you find a weakness, go the extra mile by working extra hours, hiring an outside expert, or getting really creative to repair the weakness or to turn it into a success!

4. Surround yourself with great people
One of the secrets of a great leader is great people. Hire the right staff, surround yourself with a strong inner circle, and spend time daily with people who have a variety of ‘gifts’. With the support of a strong circle of people around you, you will be ready for anything that comes your way.

5. Self-discipline

What do you need to develop self-discipline? Following a better diet or exercise routine? Getting up one hour earlier? Being rigorous with your spending? Learning something new every day? Eliminate excuse-making from your life, and begin to develop habits that will invite self-discipline to become the foundation of your life. Hire a coach to support you during the development of a routine of self-discipline, and remove rewards until the job is done!

6. Feel the fear & do it anyway!
By a show of courage, you will inspire others to follow and to walk in your footsteps. Spend 20 minutes each day doing something simply for the sake of developing courage; speak to an audience, make a difficult phone call, write an article or visit someone you have always been trying to avoid. As Eleanor Roosevelt acknowledged: ‘You gain strength, courage and confidence every time you really stop to look at fear in the face.’

7. Value Time
Great leaders show up for every appointment, and they are always on time. Each day, practice not only showing up but being ten minutes early for each and every appointment. ‘The early bird gets the worm’ has never been so true than when it applies to becoming a great leader that others are inspired to follow.

8. Communicate effectively
As a leader, your communication should be simple, clean, and clear as a bell. Examine both written and verbal communication for simplicity and clarity. Use as few words as possible, and eliminate jargon and ‘big words’ from your vocabulary. Express yourself in a way that your listeners can understand. Also, watch your body language!

9. Self Audit & Grow
Your depth of character is the key to determining your success as a leader. It is easy for us to say that we are ‘in integrity,’ but our actions are the real indicators of strength of our character. Spend 30 minutes every night looking at the major areas of your life; career, marriage, family, community as well as spirituality. Make a note of any ‘cracks’ & do everything in your power to make amends & never to repeat them again.

Remain Blessed!

Duty is God, Work is Worship

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About the Author:

Ms. Madhvi, a Gujarati, was born in Tanzania, East Africa and has lived in England for the last 32 years. She is married to a Punjabi and is blessed with a 21 year old son.

Ms. Madhvi is an accountant by profession but was forced into early retirement 10 years ago due to the accelerated degeneration of the eyes. Part of her job too was to take new graduates through various leadership and personal effectiveness programmes. She too was a semi-professional singer and had to retire for the same reason as stated earlier.

She found Swami when she was ill and not only did our beloved Lord saved her eyes, but more recently, with His divine intervention, had miraculously cancelled a cancerous tumour of her right kidney.

She now spends her days singing and sharing the glories of God with all. She too tries to learn and imbibe his teachings into her life and humbly describes herself basically as a desperately struggling Sai aspirant.

HR Jargons

A Positive Approach

We come across many HR Jargons, and we try to understand things in a negative way, but today I worked on few Jargons that, I happened to read few days ago, the ultimate aim of writing this is when we create a positive environment around us our work will be productive and we will have jolly good fun. Positive Attitude is key for corporate Success

COMPETITIVE SALARY’
You work you take’

JOIN OUR FAST-PACED COMPANY’
You can implement your knowledge right from today

‘CASUAL WORK ATMOSPHERE’
Be happy you have a family atmosphere people are warm, friendly’

MUST BE DEADLINE-ORIENTED’
Plan and perform you will be perfect

‘SOME OVERTIME REQUIRED’
To earn more name and money.

‘DUTIES WILL VARY’
You should be king of one and jack of many

‘MUST HAVE AN EYE FOR DETAIL’
You will become perfect

‘CAREER-MINDED’
Female Applicants must be focused both officially and personally

‘APPLY IN PERSON’
If you are high-flyer, job is immediate

‘NO PHONE CALLS PLEASE’
Your quality will speak, only when you meet us in person.

‘SEEKING CANDIDATES WITH A WIDE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE’
You will have lots of interesting assignment

‘PROBLEM-SOLVING SKILLS A MUST’
Every problem has a solution

‘REQUIRES TEAM LEADERSHIP SKILLS’
Move with group, but be a leader

‘GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS’
A hall mark quality of a Manager

Written By – V.VA Sriram sriramva@radripe.com

MR. V.VA SRIRAM, PROJECT MANAGER

Mr. Sriram has 7+ years of experience in Training & HR Management. A top performer in college, with a gold medal in MBA, he also has a Master’s in HR Management. He has been personally trained by the well-known corporate trainers Harrington & Associates of Portland, Oregon, USA, who work with major corporate such as Microsoft, HP, Nike, and Starbucks. Sriram has been certified for his efficient delivery and training techniques. He has trained about 4000 persons from varying backgrounds. He has written wide range of articles in the subjects of Personality Development, Career Development,Stress Management etc.,

Change Management

Caryl Grecia

Change management is the process of developing a planned approach to change in an organization. Typically the objective is to maximize the collective benefits for all people involved in the change and minimize the risk of failure of implementing the change.

Change management can be either ‘reactive’, in which case management is responding to changes in the macro-environment (that is, the source of the change is external), or ‘proactive’, in which case management is initiating the change in order to achieve a desired goal (that is, the source of the change is internal).

To be effective, change management should be multi-disciplinary, touching all aspects of the organization. Its most common uses are in information technology management, strategic management, and process management.

Change management can take many forms and include many change environments. The most common usage to the term refers to organizational change management, which is the process of developing a planned approach to change in an organization. Typically the objective is to maximize the collective benefits for all people involved in the change and minimize the risk of failure of implementing the change. The discipline of change management deals primarily with the human aspect of change, and is therefore related to pure and industrial psychology.

Change management can be approached from a number of angles and applied to numerous organizational processes. Its most common uses are in information technology management, strategic management, and process management. To be effective, change management should be multi-disciplinary, touching all aspects of the organization. However, at its core, implementing new procedures, technologies, and overcoming resistance to change are fundamentally human resource management issues.

Attitudes towards change result from a complex interplay of emotions and cognitive processes. Because of this complexity everyone reacts to change differently. On the positive side, change is seen as akin to opportunity, rejuvenation, progress, innovation, and growth. But just as legitimately, change can also be seen as akin to instability, upheaval, unpredictability, threat, and disorientation.

Whether employees perceive change with fear, anxiety and demoralization, or with excitement and confidence or somewhere in between, depends partially on the individual’s psychological makeup, partially on management’s actions, and partially on the specific nature of the change.

An individual’s attitude toward a change tends to evolve as they become more familiar with it. The stages a person goes through can consist of: apprehension, denial, anger, resentment, depression, cognitive dissonance, compliance, acceptance, and internalization. It is management’s job to create an environment in which people can go through these stages as quickly as possible and even skip some of them. Effective change management programs are frequently sequential, with early measures directed at overcoming the initial apprehension, denial, anger, and resentment, but gradually evolving into a program that supports compliance, acceptance, and internalization.

Management’s first responsibility is to detect trends in the macro-environment so as to be able to identify changes and initiate programs. It is also important to estimate what impact a change will likely have on employee behavior patterns, work processes, technological requirements, and motivation. Management must assess what employee reactions will be and craft a change program that will provide support as workers go through the process of accepting change. The program must then be implemented, disseminated throughout the organization, monitored for effectiveness, and adjusted where necessary.

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http://www.bestmanagementarticles.com
http://change-management.bestmanagementarticles.com

About the Author :
This article was contributed by Caryl B. Grecia, an affiliate of www.bestmanagementarticles.com. The site features great e-books and softwares in business and management.

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